tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3879716658406635531.post3383443582021067811..comments2023-05-02T15:09:01.485+01:00Comments on ned ludd carer: Bracing myselfned ludd carerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03087056514386460357noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3879716658406635531.post-40245264276520080512010-10-18T08:14:18.732+01:002010-10-18T08:14:18.732+01:00Good luck with the meeting Ned.Good luck with the meeting Ned.hyperCRYPTICalhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11967085628384237933noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3879716658406635531.post-9981797895914866122010-10-17T16:15:28.411+01:002010-10-17T16:15:28.411+01:00Thanks for advice. Rant away - I do it myself. I...Thanks for advice. Rant away - I do it myself. If all this blog does is give other carers somewhere to shout, that's enough. Good to hear from you.ned ludd carerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03087056514386460357noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3879716658406635531.post-33204785310866015732010-10-17T10:00:42.590+01:002010-10-17T10:00:42.590+01:00Ask for 'reasons' to be in writing and rep...Ask for 'reasons' to be in writing and reply in writing with your opinion. I find that this can act as a negotiating pawn because if anything goes wrong you have proof of the 'who and the 'why' of the decision. This (sometimes) makes them more careful. Documentation is useful for quoting "them" that they said something different last time... which they often do. I am not a nice carer and remind "them" that my responsibility is only to my daughter ie not to the numbers!!!<br /><br />Sigh! Rant out.Lornahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01314427507584427965noreply@blogger.com