Difficult time to post - will probably do something more when time and problems permit.
Wife largely, though not completely, recovered from hospital. Son has developed serious chest infection we're only slowly getting on top of (hope not to be a repeat of Jan/Feb/Mar) - one result was a 5a.m. rush over to help staff on duty. Same infection that gave him chest infection has given care staff 'flu' symptoms so major staffing gaps. Fall back plan for covering staff sickness has fallen back and fallen over. Carers not allowed to be ill - we have same infection but don't get time off, so now nursing sick son at home whilst ill ourselves and one of us still recuperating from major hospital episode.
Life's a bitch sometimes.